Success is eternal and it is a feeling that is solidly backed up by happiness. Success is a thing that do not know the meaning or adhere to the limiting word called ‘impossibility’. In other to be successful, the pronunciation of the word ‘impossible’ should be changed to ‘I’m possible‘. You can’t help yourself talk more of others when you dwell in limitations. You can help others once you are safe, secure and successful in your own life. Practically every successful person you know of is successful, in part, because they moved the destructive and disruptive people out of their lives. Successful people carefully manage their energy and associations; they are gatekeepers. Who you allow into your life, mind and heart are among the most important decisions you will ever make. Take inventory of the people with whom you spend the most time. Who you spend your time with is who you are, or who you will soon become. Limit your exposure to unhealthy and unsupportive people. Love yourself enough to say no to people who diminish your chances for a beautiful and empowered life. Sometimes you have to get away from what you know to discover what you don’t know. It is time for the abuse, control, lies and negativity to end. Align yourself with a new tribe of healthy people who are supportive of your highest good and greatest potential. Find the people who are living the positive lifestyle you wish for yourself and who share your values, and create a new family of friends that you can call, “home.” Your new positive and supportive tribe will edify you, strengthen you and empower you to serve others in ways you would have never before imagined. They lift you up even when you let yourself down. Taking care of yourself is the most powerful way to begin to take care of others, because the beauty you want to show to the world always starts with you and within you. It is not too late for you. It is never too late to begin loving yourself again. It is never too late to have the life you deserve. There are no accidents just lessons learn. Healing for everyone begins with self-love, self appreciation and self improvement. You are the ambassador of what you are selling to the world, so you need to work at it every single day you wake up. starting right now.
Many people think they want to accomplish what other successful people have in life. People often see the surface of worldly achievements, but seldom consider that many of those attainments are constructs of a false world, full of traps and endless enticements that lead to nowhere. Often times we call another persons life, your life. How lazy and ridiculous that sound, yes to me. People tend to believe they want success, and more toys and things, but when they focus on them, to their bewilderment, those very things move out of their reach. Why is that so? It is so because nature is at work. I believe that if it isn’t meant for your possession it won’t be, even if you try so hard to get it, you won’t treasure it. My version of success is that my life is full, purposeful, beautiful and boundless. I attribute this success to my spirituality, my good health, and my community of positive relationships which have all come to me as a creation of choice, I choose what comes to me and I stand to rebuke any past mistakes that pose a threat to my well being. I always face and handle my problems even though looking at them as the come now, I feel a little ashamed of myself, it is my mess and I have to clean it up so it won’t stick. Success comes from finding your center and your self; being self-centered in a positive and peaceful way. I own my time and command the space of my beingness – a space where I am allowed to grow into my true, unique nature. Success is a spiritual process, not a worldly one; that is to say it is an internal process, not external. It is a process of peeling off the layers of conditioning, becoming your essential truth, and living the inner-life. Success starts in the spiritual realm before it manifests in your physical. It is right to say that, the spiritual being of an individual is architect’s workshop and the mind is the drawing board while the physical existence is the output, end product or better yet, the establishment of your inner chambers. Success is, therefore, a process of honesty, and oftentimes, also one of courage. Success is not a negative occurrence, true success is a feeling that a negative person can’t feel but can see In others.
Don’t believe what your eyes are telling you. All they show is limitation. Look with your understanding, find out what you already know, and you’ll see the way to fly. — Richard Bach