Sometimes we have trouble letting go of the past so that we can forgive ourselves. Finding inner-resolution can be even more complicated when the past we are trying to free ourselves from involves having hurt someone. At times, all of us have been the wrongdoers or have somehow been neglectful, which comes with its own unique suffering. This seems to be the mandate of the conscience: when we harm others we harm ourselves; when we help others we help ourselves. When we have harmed someone or disappointed them, they may be angry with us and it’s natural for us to feel anguish over this. But don’t have unreasonable or excessive guilt. Guilt can interfere with our desires to move forward, to heal properly and to become a person who has the mental health and means of proper recompense.
We become okay with our situations and where we’re because we feel powerless and can not do anything about it, but we are not contented but honestly don’t know what else to do about it. The million bucks question here is; what’s life if we are not living it to the fullest? Well here are reasons why and how to turn the table around for your own good.
This is begotten from the emotional state of helplessness which breeds fear, which can create diverse emotional wreck like anger, anxiety, self-guilt, blames and etc. Worries affects every part of your emotional existence and when all is contaminated by the contagiousness of worries, it affects our outputs, our works, our behavior, our relationship, communications, state of mind and our general existence as a whole. Worries keep us from amounting to anything because we worry about what could go wrong and refuse to focus on what could right. The good news is, worry is a state of mind and planning to succeed is a doable activity. When you eventually start to turn the table around about all your worries by doing somethings, worries are gradually elevated from you. What can you do to turn the table around for your own good? That’s a good question; quit listening to what people think about you and listen to yourself more. No human wants to remain a downer and if you don’t encourage yourself to take charge and rise up, nobody else can offer the best of advice. Replace your worries with things that makes you happy and hold on to those thoughts because it is a do or die affair.
It is the nature of the strong heart, that like the palm tree it strives ever upwards when it is most burdened. -Philip Sidney
Not Enough Encouragement
We are often faced with different challenges but never able to conquer because we do not dim ourselves fit to. You’ve to remember that encouragements don’t only come from people, but the greatest of encouragements comes from within you, what you tell yourself is how you see yourself. Always wake up with a motivational saying to yourself, ‘I Can’. Remind yourself that this job, this opportunity, everything that I face will look terrific on me if I emerge victoriously. Nobody else can do it better, nobody else can handle it awesomely but you, THIS IS A JOB FOR SUPER YOU!
Not Enough Time Given To Achieve Your Dreams
Always say “yes” to the present moment. What could be more futile, more insane, than to create inner resistance to what already is? what could be more insane than to oppose life itself, which is now and always now? Surrender to what is. Say “yes” to life — and see how life suddenly starts working for you rather than against you. What is it that you want out of life? Where do you want to be? Who do you want to become? You should not give up on something you know your life will not be complete without it. Instead take the time to understand it more and take a much needed time in accomplishing that goal. Whatever your dreams are, wake up everyday and do something positive in making those dreams a reality.
Lack Of Purpose
Having a lack of purpose for your life makes you question how you fit in this world. When we are purposeless, it brings about an unbalance in our nature and nothing seem to work. Purpose is knowing who you are and what you are meant to do with who you are( read in details about purpose here). Let yourself awareness be a positive force in your pursuit for happiness. Know your purpose and progress in it and you have a positive to the world.
Risk It For The Biscuits
This is a slogan I learnt from primary school, it was always used by the principal to communicate effectively in different subjects about life. In other words, it means no guts no glory. Take more risks in the right direction of your life. Nobody succeeds in their own comfort zone without stepping out to taste the waters. You’ve to let go of fear and invest more in yourself, if you don’t, you’ll never know how it feels to succeed or how fulfilling it feels to know that you have tried on your own and failed and you need to acquire more knowledge to triumph. Do not be afraid to try, instead be afraid of not changing your situation by risking it.
Lack Of Financial Strength
Yes I know that money brings a lot of motivation and on the other hand it brings other things. The question is, what is your belief system about everything including money? Sometimes your belief system is really your fears attached to expectations. Your belief level determines what you’re willing to: do, learn, risk, and try over and over until you succeed. Money is not everything but you will be surprised that ones you get started, doors will open for money to be made available. Get comfortable with your life decisions and make plans for the betterment of it, you will definitely find a way to get financial assistance.
The only skin we can beat fit in is ourselves and no matter how uncomfortably untidy it gets, we can always wipe it clean by the above tabulated reasons and how to. Nobody is born to be alone, so it’s high time you find people that fits in your life and start building.
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